July 5, 2012

How to Make a Clear Choice

For me! It is a very important thing. We have to make choices about which, how and what we want to be. Many people don't really know what they want to be. Others are just following what the other people are doing or obeying what their parents have decided for them.

The very first step is to choose! and not just to choose. but to choose clearly with a strong passion and intention knowing all the sequences of your choice, because this is what you are going to be. Here I will provide some hints of how to make a clear choice of yourself and you future:

1/Give yourself a minute and ask "What do I want to be in this life ?","Why I want to be like that" and "Do I love doing this?". answer those questions with sincerity and passion. at the end it is just about you.

2/I bet you all were taught in school  that you can choose whatever you like ! but they did not teach you to Start Choosing! Now, it is your time to take action and CHOOSE!

3/describe it with details. make a clear vision about what and how you want to be. don't leave even the smallest details without a description. Imagine it like how you exactly want it to be, like how do you want to live. Write all of that down in a piece of paper and keep it for your reference. 

4/Share it! Share it with your family, friends, internet or wherever you would like! just share it with passion and be proud of it because this is your choice and your dream .. If you don't feel well sharing it so how come you will feel well being it!

Example : I have decided to be a great electrical engineer ( This is really my passion and something I have always wanted to be) so I wrote that down : "I want to be an electrical engineer with outstanding personality and positive attitude, skillful guy, so smart and active, do stuff with passion and obsessed about success. I will be working in a very well-known company (Intel, Dell, Toshiba) with a great salary(5000+ USD) ...  " and here I am sharing it with you :D ... 
If you can go deeper describing  then it is well thing to do.

After following those four step, I can say that you have made a CHOICE ! and I have to say congratulations for that . You have taken a step which many people have failed to take .. Good Job ^^! 

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